tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2327338169576219367.post8889369642072001192..comments2021-03-04T01:31:19.915-06:00Comments on Living the Questions: NumbBrittanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15164867624746593122noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2327338169576219367.post-18419707922286137282009-08-26T20:28:03.818-05:002009-08-26T20:28:03.818-05:00Your self help books seem to describe you well--bu...Your self help books seem to describe you well--but is it really you or just a fine example of the way you act/react? I believe you to be wrong on one accord--you state "no one can really make a decision about my relationship." Not true. The only one that can make that decision is you. As tough and challenging as the decision may seem, ultimately it's up to you. Your other half has made his decision to stand beside you through thick and thin; to learn about you, spend time with you, enjoy your company and pray for God's guidance as what the finish line is. But he can only stand there and walk with you--he cannot make your steps. Following God's lead, He likewise will walk with you wherever you go--but even He cannot make decisions for you--He can guide and inspire and give you wisdom to discern what's best for you, but ultimately, the conscionable mind he giveth you is for you to exercise. Reread the poem I wrote, inspired by you if you've forgotten some of this. Interesting thought that I did have though--what decision are you trying to make? Maybe the decision you seek is quite simple, but clouded in the other thoughts??? The numbness part adds an intriguing twist to it--it would seem to indicate a sense of something--fear, etc. that you're unconscious mind is releasing. I dunno--i'm not a therapist or conselor, but it would seem to indicate that to me. You know my suggestions and aside from remaining to stand next to you through this, all I can do is pray for you. Thwart the evil one (it's hard--I know); trust in God; BELIEVE in God; and as some popular show once said (not sure which one) "Think happy thoughts."Matt Grudzielanekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05618516186114321835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2327338169576219367.post-53860687486953433512009-08-26T20:20:37.664-05:002009-08-26T20:20:37.664-05:00Keep on praying! God sometimes likes to test your ...Keep on praying! God sometimes likes to test your faith and patience ;) He will reveal to you clearly someway, somehow what he wants for your relationship.Beccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12974995757014434758noreply@blogger.com